Aurora

As one who lives his life for adventures and centers his life on those choices that encourage the higher elevations of exuberance, I recently answered a letter from a total stranger. Her words attained my carnal curiosity and, if I may be so bold, my lecherousness. She began her introduction with the salutation of “Dear Master” and enclosed a somewhat provocative photo of herself garbed in a latex body suit with appropriate holes that substantiated her attributes quite well. I usually do not respond to this type of correspondence, but this one was different. This one seemed genuine. So I followed my instinct and replied to her. Of course, the photo had no bearing on my decision… Her name was Aurora. She was several years my junior (or maybe more) and hails from a small east coast town in Maryland. She stated her interest in the BDSM world and asked the proper questions that indicated almanbahis sincerity. Her honest curiosity produced an elaborate letter in return. I requested that if we continue this correspondence, she would need to answer some questions I had also. How much knowledge did she have in being a submissive? What did she want to discover for herself? Did she know what a submissive actually is? Was she really ready to be owned and or be collared? Was this desire an experiment or a lifestyle? What was humiliation to her? Did she enjoy pain? I instructed her to take the time to learn all the different facets of this lifestyle. Find out what her options were, read, talk to people and gain a complete understanding of this world before making life changing decisions. For myself, do I enjoy newbies? Yes and no. I enjoy challenges and introducing someone to the submissive way of life can be very almanbahis yeni giriş challenging. But newbies can be bizarre, vexing and disrespectful due to inexperience, not having a firm grasp on what they are looking for or uneasy with their lack of understanding. But, on the flip side, teaching a first-timer the basic rules and expectations can be downright enjoyable. Watching someone blossom into their true selves and eagerly encompassing the teachings can become heady, though restraint and patience must be first and foremost in any endeavor. As I continued to correspond with Aurora, I explained to her the basic concepts of a D/S relationship. The Master seduces the slave with their power; the slave seduces the Master with their willingness and servitude. It is a relationship that consists of two people who are mutually consenting adults who agree on the direction almanbahis giriş their relationship will be developed. Both agree that one of the partners will be dominant, taking the controlling role, and the other partner, the submissive, will assume the controlled role. Just like in any other relationship, it is a two way street. The Master relies on the slave as much as the slave relies on the Master to satisfy each of their different needs. No matter which role the couple takes, they are equals. Both have power though in different ways. “Savanah… let me explain this world to you. It is not all about control or fear or punishment. It is about self-discovery, freeing your spirit and opening a new door to a new world. It is about wanting to please. It is about wanting to be obedient and it is about commitment and respect. Do you understand these concepts? Do you truly understand them?” “Yes, Master…I do.” (Excerpt from “Savanah” by D. B. Shaw) Aurora was an exceptional student, willing to learn and willing to please. Her exuberance foretold the adventures we would experience and these memories would last indefinitely.